Shipping and returns templates

Missing item reply templates for when something wasn't in the parcel

Missing item reply templates illustrated by an open box with a fitted tray, five slots holding products and the sixth empty with a glowing yellow rim

Missing item reply templates have to do two jobs at once: sort out an honest packing mistake quickly, and slow down a claim that doesn't add up. Pick the reply below that matches what the customer told you and what the order shows, from a first claim on a two-item order to a box that arrived empty.

The templates

1. First claim: we'll put it right

WarmEmail

Subject: Your order [#1234]: the missing [item]

Hi [first name], Sorry, [item] should have been in your parcel. I've checked order [#1234] and it was on the order, so this one's on us. I can [send a new one out today / refund the [amount] to your card], whichever you'd prefer. Just reply and let me know. [Your name] [Store name]

2. Ask for a photo first

NeutralEmail

Subject: Quick check on order [#1234]

Hi [first name], Sorry to hear [item] wasn't in the box. So I can sort it quickly, could you send me a photo of the box, the shipping label and the packing slip? Sometimes an order ships in two parcels, and the photo helps me check that first. As soon as I have it, I'll come back to you with a fix. [Your name] [Store name]

3. It's in a second parcel

NeutralEmail

Subject: The rest of order [#1234] is on its way

Hi [first name], Good news: [item] is on its way. Your order went out in two parcels, and the second one is with [carrier], due on [date]. Here's its tracking: [tracking link]. If it hasn't arrived by [date], reply here and I'll [send a replacement / refund it]. [Your name] [Store name]

4. The box arrived empty

NeutralEmail

Subject: Your order [#1234] arrived empty

Hi [first name], I'm sorry, an empty box is the last thing you want to open. Could you send me photos of the box, the tape and the shipping label, and keep the packaging for now? The carrier may ask to see it. I've opened a claim with [carrier] (reference [12345]). I'll come back to you by [date] with a [replacement / refund], and you won't need to deal with the carrier yourself. [Your name] [Store name]

5. It's happened before

FirmEmail

For a customer who has reported a missing item before. It slows things down without accusing anyone.

Subject: Re: Order [#1234]

Hi [first name], Thanks for letting me know about [item]. I can see we had a similar report on order [#1100] in [month], so I've passed this one to [name] on our team. They'll check the packing record and come back to you by [date]. If you have a photo of the box and the packing slip, send it over and I'll add it to the case. [Your name] [Store name]

6. Short version for chat

WarmChat

Sorry about that. Could you send a photo of the box and the packing slip? Once I've seen it I'll sort out a [replacement / refund] for the missing [item].

Start from what the order shows#

Pick the reply by what the order and the packing record say, not by how cross the email sounds. If the item was on the order and the packing record shows it wasn't ticked off, it's a packing mistake, and the first template sorts it. If the order went out in two parcels, send the second tracking link. If you can't tell yet, ask for the photo first.

When a missing item becomes a dispute#

Keep the conversation, whichever reply you send. If the customer goes to their bank instead of waiting for you, what they told you and when is part of your evidence. Our guide to chargeback evidence from customer conversations shows what to keep and how to send it.

What to include

  • An apology that doesn't argue with the customer.
  • The item and the order number, so there's no mix-up.
  • What you need from them, and why.
  • What happens next, and by when.

Don't say this

  • "Are you sure it wasn't in the box?"

    It sounds like an accusation. Ask for a photo instead, and say it helps you check.

  • "We pack every order carefully."

    They didn't ask how you pack. It reads as a polite no.

  • "Please contact the carrier."

    If the item was never packed, the carrier can't help. If the parcel was lost, the claim is yours to make.

Hay.chat
Online
Hi, my order came today but the candle holder wasn't in the box.
Checking order #2291. 2 items, 1 parcel, delivered yesterday
Shopify
Sorry about that. Could you send me a photo of the box and the packing slip? Then I'll get it sorted.
Here you go.
Reading your missing item playbook
Thanks, that helps. The candle holder wasn't packed, so I'll refund it to your card. You'll get a confirmation once the team has approved it.
Drafted for your approval Approve Reject
A missing item with a photo. The refund still waits for a person to approve it.

When a person should take over

A second missing item claim from the same customer within a few months.

An empty box, or a claim on a high-value order.

A customer who mentions a chargeback or their bank.

Frequently asked questions

Apologise, check the order, and ask for a photo of the box and the packing slip. Then offer a replacement or a refund, and say when it will happen.

Answer the next missing item message with the order already open

Hay.chat sends these replies for you. It checks the order and applies your policy. Refunds and cancellations wait for your approval by default.

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